30 Questions to Ask Before You Get Serious: A Faith-Based Guide to Choosing the Right Partner.

You can care deeply about a man and still not know the things that matter most.

Maybe he's kind to you, but you've never talked about how he handles money. Maybe you pray, but you've never discussed what faith will look like in your home. Maybe everyone keeps asking when you'll marry, and quietly, you're wondering if he's the right one.

Wanting answers doesn't make you difficult. It means you're taking care of your heart, your faith, and your future.

This workbook helps you have those conversations one at a time, calmly and without turning them into an interrogation.

What's inside

30 questions across six areas: faith, character, money and work, family and culture, the future, and communication and health. Each question includes:

Why it matters What a healthy answer sounds like What to watch out for A follow-up question to go deeper A short prayer or reflection prompt Space for your notes and a green, yellow, or red rating

You'll also find:

A note written just for you, with space to write your own non-negotiables first A guide on how to ask without making it feel like an interview A scorecard and review pages to help you see the full picture A page on when to pause and seek help

Written with real life in mind

It speaks to things many of us face, such as family expectations, bride price and wedding costs, pressure about timelines, supporting relatives, relocating abroad, and genotype and health.

This is for you if

You're dating with marriage in mind and want clarity before you commit You feel pressure from family, friends,s or church about your timeline You want to ask honest questions without sounding suspicious You'd like your faith to guide your decision, not just your feelings

What it won't do

It won't tell you who to marry, and it can't promise a result. No man has perfect answers, and this isn't about finding one who does. It helps you notice honesty, character, er and willingness to grow, so your decision is made with open eyes. It's a conversation guide, not a replacement for counseling or the guidance of your pastor, imam, or mentor.

Format

A PDF with instant download. It reads well on your phone, and you can print it if you'd like to write in it. It's written from a Christian faith perspective, with scripture and prayer prompts. Muslim readers are welcome to use the reflection prompts in line with their own tradition.

Questions are far easier to ask before a wedding date, a family list, and everyone's opinions are involved. Take your time, and take one question at a time.

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